Stand Up & FREE Yourself From The Narcissists

Free Yourself From Narcissists:

A powerful pathway to Heal, Love and Thrive following a relationship with a narcissist

If you are reading this, remember one fact –

‘I was you, walking the exact same path you are today.’ 

However, once I broke free, I knew it was my PURPOSE to guide you to cut the tentacles that the Narcissist’s power wields over your life.  Whether you are living in a mansion, driving the right car, children at the best school, as I was, or financially dependent on your narcissist to put food on the table.  Whatever your circumstance, if you are in a relationship with a Narcissist, you are living in a world of pain, of confusion, and most importantly a world without love.

My programme FREE Yourself From the Narcissist, is the method I used to transform my controlled, unhappy, emotionally abusive life, to one with infinite possibilities, full of love and a career I had dreamt of for too long.

If you want a life full of serenity and hope, one that you think is only in your dreams, please keep reading.  How do I have proof of this?  I’m living it.

Now firstly, breathe…

Here, you are in a safe place. You might be feeling a little shell-shocked now you’ve finally made the decision to leave a relationship that’s slowly chipped away at you. Right now, you may be feeling dumped and discarded. Even a little wrecked. And maybe questioning if you’re going mad. In fact, you’ve been told you’re crazy, right?

Please know, you’re NOT crazy.

You were conditioned to believe you were by the narcissist, resulting in feeling you have no control over finances, relationships with others, activities and life in general.

Secondly, give yourself credit for taking the first step on a new pathway…

You knew life was never going to get better living out the same scenario every day.  What you’re about to embark on is the start of something wonderful.

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The real key is to ensure you take the time to heal, move towards financial autonomy and, ultimately, get back your power to live your best life NOW.

If you don’t put the spotlight back on yourself, the problem is you can easily take on the beliefs you’ve been fed for so long now. You can spiral down into a place that’s neither good for you or your children.

Sometimes we think we’re OK, but after a little exploration realise we’re still holding ourselves back from truly enjoying life because we’ve been led to believe we don’t deserve anything better.

You may also have fears around your financial situation, having had your partner controlling the money for so long. And the kids – how will they fare and what’s the best pathway forward for them?

I say all this, because I know. I’ve lived it. I was YOU!



I remember the moment sitting on a rock at the beach not being able to see any light. Life had gone from a fairytale to a nightmare from the moment I fell pregnant.

I’d been discarded from a six-year marriage with an eight-week-old baby. I’d had to move countries overnight. I was not only now left without a husband, but also without a home and a career.

I’d started to believe I was crazy. And looking down at my little girl, knowing I had to be responsible for raising this child alone scared me.

Over the coming months I would learn many lessons – often the hard way.

I learnt:

  • WHY you need to be better educated on narcissists and always a step ahead or you simply won’t ever be on a level playing field going into divorce.
  • Rebuilding yourself and your life to where it previously was might feel impossible. However, if you don’t put the spotlight back on yourself NOW, you may never return to your former self.
  • You may be suffering an acute lack of confidence, stopping you in completing even the smallest of tasks. You need to learn techniques to regain your confidence. When I fell victim to this, it affected my career in the financial markets, as I never put my hand up for promotions due to never feeling good enough. Then, when the headhunters continually called for director-level roles, I always said I wasn’t capable, despite the fact I was.

This is why this program is essential

To Building the Great Life You Deserve.

I always vowed if I was ever in a position to help others, I would. Now, with my daughter turning into a beautiful young woman and my Divorce Coaching business thriving, I’ve packaged my knowledge and lessons into this easily affordable, proven program to help you tread a more easeful path to healing.

Stand Up & FREE Yourself From The Narcissists

Your Time Is NOW To Stand Up And FREE Yourself From The Narcissist

With this program, you will gain clarity on exactly HOW to make your life and children’s lives better.  This program guides you through the dark fog you have been trapped in, towards your brighter future.

  • It will prepare you to thrive financially, in your health, in your relationships and your wellness.
  • It provides you with the tools to create your best life because it’s all about your future now.
  • You will finally accept and understand you cannot change who your partner is, but you can change your future and your destiny, as it is in YOUR hands.  

Here’s What The Program Will Give You:

  • Six in-depth modules, that will FREE you from the chains that have held you back in life up until today.  You will be guided down a powerful pathway where you will heal, love and thrive.
  • A positive, support-focussed SECRET Facebook Group, where you can feel safe and secure to be yourself with other women who are experiencing exactly what you are.  No longer feel isolated or alone.
  • Worksheets to expedite your healing journey and ensure you are focusing on the right areas for your future for joy, self worth and love.

    Are You Ready To Transform Your Life TODAY?


In this proven program, you’ll learn the exact steps

I took & use with My Coaching Clients

To Lead a Thriving Life.

Megan Holgate Module 1 of Free Yourself From Narcissists

During this module you’ll gain acceptance your ex is a narcissist and understand why and who exactly you are dealing with.

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Been wondering why they selected you? During Module 2 you’ll understand the core issues as to why and how this switched from a fairytale to a nightmare.


Emotional Rebuilding is the focus here as we look at the keys to recovery. You will shift from shame and self loathing to self love and self worth.

Megan Holgate Free Yourself From Narcissists Module 4
Divorcing a Narcissist – Prepare for Armageddon, then everything is an upside!  Preparation is key to ensure you are prepared for the worst and hope for the best.

Free Yourself From Narcissists Module 5

If you have children to factor in, Co-Parenting With A Narcissist is a module which provides essentials tools to guide you to retain control of your ex and not allow him to control you and your children.

Free Yourself From Narcissists Module 6

The final module allows you to step into your joyful future – the future you so rightly deserve. It also ensures you won’t repeat history by never attracting a narcissist into your life.


1. ME!  

ONLY for the Live Intake beginning JANUARY 15 2019,  you will have me, for an entire hour each week, to answer ANY questions you may have.  That is the equivalent of SIX Coaching Sessions.

I’d love to help you on a powerful pathway to Heal, Love and Thrive now you have moved out of your relationship with a narcissist.


I’m living proof of that, living out my dream life today – and I want the same for you.

Get Ready To…

  • Cease living in your past, dreaming of what could have been.  Now you will embrace each day and begin to plan your prosperous tomorrow.  
  • Understand with clarity why your journey has been so confusing and difficult, and feel calmer and back in control of your life – at last.
  • Begin to live an abundant, joyful life, free of pain – releasing the narcissist’s damaging effect from you and your children’s lives.


Free Yourself From Narcissists is a great value investment

  • 6 Core Nurturing In-Depth modules, with step-by-step PDFs and worksheets: Value $2100



Megan Holgate Free Yourself From NarcissistsMaybe you’re not at the point where you can afford a 1:1 coaching package?  This experience is your opportunity to discover the steps needed to thrive in life again like my coaching clients – WITHOUT having to invest in coaching.

This course shares the exact steps I took to move me out of the fog. It’s all laid out to gently guide you in the right direction with greater ease than you’ll experience trying to figure it all out yourself.

You’ll feel supported. And you’ll access the entire six-step program at a cost of what one session would be.

You’ll also receive a backstage pass to mine and others’ stories – personal, heartfelt stories with invaluable lessons. It’s a raw look at what I went through and how you can avoid the same so you can get to where I am now more easefully and faster.

So, why should you be listening to me?

Megan-Holgate-CircleHi, I’m Megan. As a new mum, I didn’t expect to be staring at the ceiling of my own childhood bedroom, cradling my eight-week-old baby — my marriage and career in tatters. Yet that’s exactly where I found myself, at 29, indescribably crushed.

Before everything came tumbling down, I had been living a privileged expatriate life in Hong Kong. I was married to a successful investment banker and was excelling in my career in banking.  Like so many of these stories, it was a picture-perfect life, until it wasn’t …

Within 24 hours of discovering my husband had been living a double life, I was on a plane to my family in Australia. I was in shock. I literally ran away.

And while my husband went on to become the global CFO of a world-renowned bank, I lost much more than just my marriage.

So I know where you’ve been, I’ve felt the pain, I’ve faced the fog with no clue of how to move forward and I’ve been deep in the fear of wondering how on earth you can ever get back to a normal life.

Divorce with a narcissist is HELL if we are not properly prepared.

But your life can truly turn around,

It you are Prepared!


Megan Holgate Free Yourself From Narcissists

Here’s what some of my clients had to say about their pathways:

  • Megan came into my life when I needed her the most, when I needed guidance but didn’t know where to find it. Her course has made me feel cleansed and has freed me from my turmoil. My strength has grown, I believe I do matter and I am now comfortable within myself. As I did each Module, I got stronger and stronger. It reminded me to follow my beliefs, my values and who I wanted to be. I now have more clarity, I am powerful and I can now stand up and be true to myself. Megan’s course has been one of the best things I have done. I am more confident and found, YES, life is joyful. I do matter and I can now follow my dreams.

    Name Withheld For Privacy
  • Megan’s course shocked me to the core, as it was as if Megan had stepped into my life, as she described everything to a tee on what I had and was experiencing.  The enormous amount of deceit and lying I had endured, was exactly as Megan explained.  I can see Megan has walked in my shoes which made me feel immediately better and less alone.  Megan’s program is powerful and inspiring, as it motivated me to continue to move forward in my new life, as far away from my ex-partner as I possibly can.

    I am thankful I have had access to this invaluable course. 

    Grace - Stay At Home Mum
  • Megan really understands the challenges and stress associated with being in a toxic relationship with a Narcissist.  Megan has clearly been there and thankfully we don’t have to go through this alone anymore. 

    Megan’s program provides both practical and emotional support to get you through the dark times as she guides you to create your fresh new life as I did.

    Nicole - HR Executive, Newcastle

So tell me, do you want the same ease, confidence, and joy these women have gained from working on building a better life?

The reality is, you can either continue trying to work it out alone and hoping for the best OR you can choose to follow a proven path that will provide a better life for you and your children.

If you want something different to happen, if you want to finally thrive in life again, you’re going to have to create change. I’d love you to click the button below to Free Yourself From Narcissists and follow a powerful pathway to heal, love and thrive following a relationship with a narcissist.

Here’s what to do next:

  • Click the button below,

  • Fill out the PayPal order form
  • In your inbox, look for an email from Megan Holgate. Inside you will find the membership site, your login and password details.

The pathway forward is not always easy,

Yet it is one you simply MUST do.

The key is to prepare. Let’s start preparing together.

Right now, I know you’re feeling a sense of excitement, knowing what’s possible for you and your beautiful children.

But with what you’ve been through and your own understanding of the partner you’ve just spent many years married to, I also know there’s doubts and worries about whether this is really going to change your life. And I get it, I’ve been there.

So, to help you get more clarity, here’s who the e-course is for and who it’s not for:

It’s for you if:

  • You know this has happened, and want to get through this to create the best future for you and your children – yet need some guidance.
  • You want to live a peaceful, successful life
  • You want your children to thrive and offer them every possibility life can offer them.
  • You’re ready to put in the work to create a better future for you and your children.

It’s not for you if:

  • You hope to reconcile with your ex-partner
  • You are a victim and happy to remain one
  • You don’t want to put in the work to set yourself up for a better future
  • You are looking for one-on-one support

Next, let me clear up some of those questions

Swirling around in your head


Frequently Asked Questions

Why is it $295?

Not everyone is in a financial position to take up coaching right now. This is why I decided to create an affordable program to shift you towards a better future for you and your children.

What if I don’t have access to either a Credit Card or PayPal? Also I am worried my Husband or Wife will notice the expense in our Bank Account? What can I do to prevent this?

One of the core lessons I teach my clients, is to create their own financial independence.  The first step in this journey, is to open up a NEW bank account, solely in your name, which gives you financial independence.  This step is the beginning and the most important part of creating your New Life.  If you do not have the courage yet to do this, it’s ok, Rome was not built in a day.  If you want  to proceed with my program you can direct credit me via a bank branch.  Email megan(at) to confirm these details.

How much time will the course take to complete?

Having been right where you are, I know how busy life is as you balance work, your children and the process of divorcing a narcissist. Therefore, I wanted to focus on providing a program that gives you exactly what you most need to move forward. The program includes six PDF modules, each of which takes time to read through and digest. You will then need to ensure you implement the actions that ensure you the greatest chance at success.

Do I need to be techy to do the course or have special systems on my computer?

Not at all. I’m not techy myself, so I get it! Once you click the “buy” button on this page, you’ll be redirected to Paypal. You can either login to an existing Paypal account or use your credit card to purchase. Once completed, you’ll be redirected to a thank you page where you’ll find the login details. Your membership page will include the six PDF documents, which you can simply click and have download directly to your computer. As long as you have a PDF reader, which most computers come with now, you’ll be able to open the document and start on your pathway to recovery.

Can you guarantee my life will be better after this course?

If you’re willing to put in the work, then your life will change. This is the program I wished I’d had access to when I was recovering from my ex. The degree to which your life will change is really up to you!The pathway forward isn’t easy, but you’ve got to do it. The key is to prepare.If you’re ready to free yourself from narcissists and start on a powerful pathway to heal, love and thrive following a relationship with a narcissist, this program is for you.

The pathway forward isn’t easy, but you’ve got to do it. The key is to prepare.If you’re ready to free yourself from narcissists and start on a powerful pathway to heal, love and thrive following a relationship with a narcissist, this program is for you.

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  • When I first rang Megan I was not only miserable, but I was profoundly stuck. Stuck in all areas of my life. Professionally, financially, relationship-wise, health, and business. Up until that time I had been an extremely busy, respected and successful legal professional. Then, quite suddenly, I found myself at a major crossroads in my life. I felt totally overwhelmed and my problems insurmountable. However, immediately upon talking to Megan l sensed her intelligence, empathy, enthusiasm, expertise and kindness. As a ‘professional people assessor’ my B.S. radar was on full alert for any plagiarised limp textbook advice. But I found the opposite. An empathetic, switched-on, intelligent and educated woman. That was 6 months ago. I now feel like a different person. I know where I am headed and I feel good about it. I simply could not have come this far in such a short amount of time without Megan’s empathy, intellect, energy, humour, and advice. In short, Megan is smart.  She has expertise and experience not only in human relationship meltdowns and tragedies, but business, finance, commodities, human resources, health, positive action, turmoil control, multinational enterprises, vocational guidance, advocacy and objectivity. She is a solid reliable anchor when the rest of your world feels totally out of control. I feel blessed to have found her and would highly recommend her services to my nearest and dearest as an essential element to caring for yourself.

    Melissa - Lawyer, Sydney
  • Megan has been a tremendous support to me during a hugely stressful and uncertain time.  Having my world turned upside down, Megan has helped me find my inner strength, value my self-worth and take control of my life. With an infant to care for and coming to the realisation I was in an emotionally and financially abusive relationship, I am so grateful Megan came into my life and gave me the support I needed to get out of my situation and look forward to a better future for me and my baby. Megan helped me understand I was not crazy; I was in a relationship with a Narcissist.  When I relocated to my hometown of Perth and met with a therapist, who asked me ‘How did I find the courage to leave?’  My response was ‘It was Megan, my Coach.’ He explained that even though I am having to work through emotional issues, how fortunate I was to have understood who my partner was and to have found the courage to leave early in the marriage.  Some who are in relationships for many years, don’t ever psychologically recover.  I am one of the lucky ones, thanks to meeting Megan.