I became The Narcissistic Recovery Coach,

When I realised everybody didn’t get,

What it was truly like

To Divorce a Narcissist

I GET IT, AS I HAVE BEEN YOU

Using my 25 Years Experience in the Financial Markets

of

London, Hong Kong & Sydney

Coupled with my Personal Experience,

I Understand Every Step of this Process

&

Will Deliver The Results

You So Very Much Deserve

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I Was Sideswiped, yet I had to Deal with it!

My life had been pretty easy.

Growing up in a beachside suburb of Sydney, attending an all-girls private school, life was fun, bright and easy.

Falling in love, and moving to London with my husband, where both of our careers in Banking, life truly was golden.

Fast forward a few years, and as a new mum, I didn’t expect to be sitting on the Qantas plane alone,  cradling my eight-week old baby — my marriage and career in tatters. Yet that’s exactly where I found myself, at 29, indescribably crushed.

Before everything came tumbling down, I had been living a priviledged expatriate life in Hong Kong.  Married to a successful investment banker and was excelling in my career in Banking.  Like so many of these stories, it was a picture-perfect life, until it wasn’t …

My husband went on to become the global CFO of a world-renowned bank, I lost much more than just my marriage.

Divorce can ruin your life

if you are NOT properly prepared when

Divorcing a Narcissist

Contending with the practical and financial aspects of raising children, and our children’s emotional response to their parents’ split, can be daunting.

Our careers take a battering, and along with that our financial stability.

We can be forced to move house, we can lose friends, and all the while our responsibilities skyrocket … just as we’re feeling our most defeated and fragile and lost.

Working with Me I Will Guide You

As you burst to the surface of your life, to begin to breathe again, allowing the sunshine to burst right back into your life.

To become a formidable force, stronger because of what you went through.  Your life over time will transform from being unrecognisable, to being unrecognisably great.

Even if, right now, you’re just trying to make it through the next hour without crying, know that you can be stronger when you’re through all of this, too.

As I have been You.  I know how this feels. 

Just for a minute, imagine your future, the one you have always dreamt?

A future placed much more firmly in your own hands.

Imagine growing into the person you don’t even realise yet that you can become.

Imagine Becoming The Powerful Person You Always Wanted To Be?

Imagine a version of yourself that is more powerful and successful than you’ve ever been before.

Imagine all of this happening because, right when you needed to believe it most, you decided these dark days would not define you.

You chose instead to be defined by what you did next.

This is how I Transformed My Life
&
YOU too can change your future NOW!

How my future looked and felt, was all in my hands!
I HAD to CREATE the Strong & Successful Woman,

I Once Was & Always Wanted to Be.

I needed to become The Mother My Daughter Deserved.

Winston Churchill’s famous quote of,

“Never, Never, Never, Give Up”

Helped me through many dark days.

My Life Improved as I did everything Possible!

I was headhunted for my dream corporate role, where I regained my confidence, self-esteem and most importantly my financial independence.

I wrote a book, which is my second-biggest accomplishment next to raising my daughter. (Stay tuned for more information!)

I continued to mentor women going through Divorce while working full-time, which led me to my purpose in life – Divorce & Narcissistic Recovery Coaching.

During my Divorce journey I experienced

Career realignment: Becoming a single parent, with my ex-husband based overseas, I lowered my career expectations to align my career with the parent I wanted to be. The lesser salary was a shock and a confidence killer.  However, I have no regrets as we only have one chance at parenthood.

Expatriate Life: Acclimitising to a new country, a new career role, or a new life, can at times create a wave of fear within us.  Let me help you embrace your expatriate life to the fullest.  I can help embrace change, meeting new people and experiences, stepping up and out of your comfort zone, as this is the essential ingredient in transforming  your fear into an exhilarating life.  Go for it!

Redundancy:  Redundancy can create financial and emotional stress, and when a sole parent this is felt more-so.  Learning to transform a negative into a positive by using this time to reflect, might be the impetus you need for an overdue career change?  My advice is to embrace change, as this is what keeps life exciting!

Grief: Grief can be attributed to the death of our loved ones, loss of friends, career, or simply life, as we know it.   Grief and loss can at times cripple us to the point where it feels it has overtaken our life. I have experienced many incidents of grief and I am here to help you with coping strategies to guide you through these difficult times.

Your extraordinary life is just over this hurdle, and I can help you find the way through to it.

I will guide you through your options as you create a new, confident future.

Together, we’ll articulate new goals and carve exciting plans, and we’ll create clear and concise achievable steps for you to achieve these.

This life story you’re writing isn’t anywhere near finished.

There is a fresh chapter just over the page.

Expansive, white space waiting for you to unfold what happens next.

CAN YOU FEEL IT YET? I CAN!

I Am Here to Guide You

IF YOU WANT CHANGE

YOU HAVE TO MAKE THE CHANGE – NOW – TODAY!

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