Could My Girlfriend or Wife Be A Narcissist?
I understand many of you, like me, were done over by our narcissistic partners BIG TIME! I can hear you probably thinking ‘Good for her.’ Please don’t ever think that – Female narcissists wield as much if not more venom and pain on their victim than one could fathom.
Common patterns of female narcissists are: –
- They lie pathologically. Not just little white lies, they lie about everything and when you see it you really see it!
- have Jekyll & Hyde personality. They are all sunny and bright in public and cold as ice in private with you.
- Use SEX as a weapon. They are extremely beautiful and sex is the weapon they use to get anything they want.
- Miraculously fall pregnant. Most in the very early stages of a relationship, when they state emphatically they were on protection, instead they are found out to have been on IVF.
- Have a partner for a specific need. i.e. Money more than often, or to be part of a power couple, or to be looked after financially as they suddenly lose their jobs and never return.
- Sexually Promiscuous. Female narcissists sleep with anybody, IF they can gain something from this association. When a better partner comes along, she will discard her partner and children without a blink for the better prospect.
Do the above points resonate with you?
I hope my small Blog has reassured you that you are NOT going crazy, you are simply in a relationship with a narcissist. The men I spoke to this week all said the same thing. ‘There needs to be more written about this, as they feel so ashamed that they have been taken for a ride.’
Shame is the common thought pattern between both female and males that have been tormented by a narcissist. I hope my books reassure you, that there is nothing to be ashamed of. My new book to be released later in July ‘YES Your Girlfriend is a Narcissist – What you must know so you don’t get F. CKED OVER,’ will help many more experiencing this.
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