Victim or Victor – Which One Do You Want To Be?
I have to be honest and admit, following my divorce, it took me a long time to understand I was living the life of a victim – BIG TIME. When I understood the one thing that was standing in the way of living my best life was ME – it was time to take action.
Yes, my life had been turned upside down from my divorce. Yes, I had missed out on a lot of money in the divorce as my investment banker husband hid our money, and I can go on and on. However, the important point I had missed was that nobody forced me marry my husband, it was my choice. So now it was time to accept that yes – shit happens, but what’s important is not what happens to us – but how we react during turbulent times, is what’s important.
Up until this moment, I was reacting pretty pathetically, which was about to change. The key to my transformation, was I believed that I deserved more from life. Changing my belief system was how I regained my power and changed my life. My first goal was changing jobs. I hated my job, yet I was not doing anything about it. I went for many interviews, until I was offered a fabulous role which resulted in me doubling my salary.
Restoring my inner power, totally transformed my life, and that’s when I realised I had to help others to do the same, which is why I created my online course FREE Yourself From the Narcissist. I will be launching a LIVE FREE Yourself Course later in January, and if you want to know more about this please respond to this email at any time.
I hope this email has you thinking on a deeper level of your life. Are you content with how your life looks and feels or do you know deep within yourself that you deserve and want more?
- Do you want a better paying job?
- Do you want to improve your health?
- Have you realised your relationship is not a healthy one and you want out?
- Do you want to learn more about finances, but don’t know where to begin?
Whatever is going on in your life, please know one thing – you only get one life, so don’t waste another moment living a life that is less than spectacular.
If you need some guidance to improve your life, click here for a FREE chat at any time. If you know you want to feel back in control of your life, click here today and follow the steps I outline for your amazing future – ‘How To Divorce a Narcissist and NOT Get Screwed By One Who Did!’
Have a beautiful week