Understanding Your Sibling or Parent is a Narcissist

The Relief is Palpable

YOU are Not Crazy

Understanding your siblings or parents are narcissists is so liberating and a time of true awakening.  It’s exactly as this image is, watching a new dawn, as everything falls into place.

You now understand with total clarity, YOU are not crazy.  When you previously tried to work out why and it never made sense.  Why they repeatedly were deliberately, hurtful, devious and evil towards you, NOW makes complete sense.

Understanding who they are, now gives you an invisible shield to surround yourself with, one that they can’t pervade. It’s like an invisible armory that they cannot penetrate – you are safe. Your heart and mind protected from the onslaught it’s over!

I was deluded for years astonished at my family members’ behavior, that I knew deep down was wrong, confusing even crazy, yet when I questioned their actions, I was shut down by other family members, so I acquiesced and shut down my line of questioning.

However, now many years later with years of therapy and extensive reading of many books written by specialists on this subject I am at peace that I understand their level of evil capabilities, so now they can’t hurt me.

If you are in a family situation and you feel some guidance will help you, please reach out to me at any time, or Download here my  my FREE 5 Day Recovery From A Narcissistic Relationship, to help you begin your healing process.

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Signs your sibling is a Narcissist:

  • Pathological liars, lying without blinking or blushing, they are experts and you have witnessed this your entire life.
  • The first thing they ever say is ‘How do I look?’ It’s all about them, particularly on important occasions such as Graduation, or worse – your Wedding Day!
  • At times of your personal great joy, they will create a major scene or have something major happen to them, to take the limelight off you, as it must always be about them.
  • Not retain friends.
  • Their selfishness is next level, unfathomable at times, not taking into anybody’s considerations.
  • Have an inflated sense of their beauty.
  • Extreme jealousy of everybody, can rarely say a nice word about anybody or anything.

If we have an expectation that our sibling or parent does actually love us, we are constantly setting ourselves up for continual hurt, as the only person that matters in their lives are them.  They will step on, crush us, do whatever they need to, for their own satisfaction.   When we have absolutely no expectation for love to be reciprocated from them, that is when you arrive at a position the Narcissist detests awareness.  Finally after years of abuse, we are at last aware of who and what they are.

When it gets to a point that you have to extricate yourself from contact with a family member, it may initially be hard and sad, but very soon you will be filled with an awareness of peace, spatial calmness replacing the constant crazy and continual drama that this person’s actions created.  They can at times when you cease contact, attempt to divide the extended family to continue to hurt you, so be very aware of their actions and keep calm at all times.

If you put pen to paper on all the drama fueled occasions this person created and write them down in detail, and additionally list  the stress and fallout to every person concerned, you will see in black and white how unfathomable and clear this picture is, that no doubt has continued for far too long.

No more! You are done, you are out and don’t look back. Let this person continue their carnage as that is exactly what they do, to others, you have stepped away from the bonfire.   They cannot hurt you any more as you have cut the ties to their warped, deceitful, evil life.

You are FREE and don’t look back, trust me, keep walking and hold your head up high

If you are in a family situation and you feel some guidance will help you, please reach out to me at any time, or Download here my  my FREE 5 Day Recovery From A Narcissistic Relationship, to help you begin your healing process.

5 day narcissistic relationship

Have a beautiful day.

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